I see that Mother's Day and Father's Days are coming up. Normally, I would send a gift or card to our child's parents from us or something our sponsored child can color for them; however, it appears that there MAY be an unusual situation with our 9 year old girl from Togo. The information given to us when we started sponsoring her in January stated that she was living with friends. It made no mention of any family. Her introduction letter (a fill in the blank type format) has her mom, dad, and a brother's name filled in into the predesignated spaces. The letter states nothing about who she lives with. Is there a way to find out what is truly going on? I don't know why she would be living with friends if she does have family...Perhaps she is having relational problems with them? What would be appropriate for me to do as these special holidays come up? Should I try to ignore it and hope that she brings it up on her own in the coming years of letters? I don't want to upset her by asking a question if something is wrong? What do you think?