Hi Jeanne! I am so sorry you are feeling bullied by us. This is not our intention at all! I see on your account that you have not opted out of any of our communications, but I would be happy to edit that for you today! Would you like me to opt you out of receiving all of the extra requests for sponsorship, etc., without losing any updates on your child? There shouldn't be any concern with you not receiving updates on your child if we opt out of those requests. What updates had you lost previously when you edited to get rid of the requests you didn't want?